The way I lead my life

In some parents' perceptions, caning their young is the best way of guidance towards the good route. Well, is't the truth?? I ain't think so though. I just cant understand, why cant they use an alternative way to teach their generation?? For instance, explain to them slowly, teach them the best way patiently, reasoning and so on so that they realise the fault they did and try to amend it. Canning them continously and terribly without explaining to them wouldn't solves the matter but will make it worsen behove. What a shame!! Canning a standard three children non-stop and lashing out towards him, don't you feel very ashamed?? I cant deny the fact that it's your right to which you can do whatever things, decide the methods which you gotta teach your generation, but it's indeed overdue. It's heart poking when we were there to see all these things to happen. I tried to stop you, but my efforts turned no avail. Yet, it was not the first time. I'm hoping that you will try to think of his feeling, let him have the chance to confide and tell what he actually wants. There will always be an alternative way to solve a problem. Everyone does something wrong, included you..



In an unrelated case, I felt indeed shameful towards some syndicates. I was taking my breakfast-lunch at one restaurant near klang parade. Soon, what appeared in front of us was an old man, holding an unsealed bottle, begging some "income" from us. My mum's friend showed his messy towards the old man, asked him to take a seat. We ordered one set of rice for him. he devoured it ravenously . When asked, he's 68 years old, came from si chuan. He was assigned by a group of syndicate to collect money from those who eating in the restaurant before they were collected in certain places. In return, they will be provided shelter and foods with conditions, they are not allowed to reveal any details of the syndicate. How they could be so conscienceless?? An old man aged nearly 70, holding an unsealed bottle to collect money all the ways under the scorching sun.... amithaba.........Don't the syndicates feel very embarrased? SHAME!!


Ah gong(old man)......... God bless you!! T.T